Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Area of bridal and consuetudinary area watchs Chinese convention

1. 3 books: According to the ceremony law of Chinese tradition, those who point to is the writ of the contact in inviting a process cordially, it is respectively
"Letter of appointment " -- order close book, in the exchange when be engaged;
"Gift book " -- gift detailed list, detailed lists gift sort and quantity in the center, cross the trade when great gift;
"Receive a book " -- the book that marries a bride, when marrying to receive bridal move into one's husband's household upon marriage that day, use.
2. 6 ceremonies: It is to point to arrive by seek a marriage alliance, act as a matchmaker marry, the formalities of get married. It is respectively
"Accept is collected " -- common weighs act as a matchmaker, namely man home asks go-between to go to woman home talking about a marriage, woman home promises to discuss marriage hind, man home proposes before equipment ceremony;
"Ask a name " -- common says to add up to character 8, hold go-between in the palm excuse me day of woman birth date is mixed full name, preparation adds up to the ceremony of marriage;
"Accept auspicious " -- namely after man home is predicted auspiciously, equipment ceremony informs the woman of the home, marriage is preliminary and agreed;
"Accept is asked for " -- weigh Guo Dali again, day of auspicious of man make choice of is held to woman home be engaged great gift;
"Please period " -- pick an auspicious day day of get married, old times chooses auspicious day to be double month even-numbered days more commonly, do not be fond of anthology 3, 6, in November, 3 have medicinal powder sound; Do not choose 6 because do not think new personality has half world the fate brings lovers together only,be; Implicit in November endless meaning.
"Greet in person " -- bridal that day, man belt greets a book to marry a bride to woman home personally.
3. Bring a bed: The day is counted before wedding, pick day of auspicious of one fine celestial bodies, in bedding of new bed admiral, the sheet has been spread, again the Long Feng on the shop by, be gone up to scatter fruit of various happy event, wait like earthnut, red jujube, longan, lotus seed, meaning analogy new personality is born early expensive child.
Carry the person of the bed, person of make the bed and the person that drop happy fruit are essence of life is carried fine single out those who come " good life person " -- sister of parental be still living and in good health, brother all ready, marriage harmonious, children is geminate, nature is to hope such person can be brought to new personality lucky.
4. Be troubled by bridal chamber: Old times regulation, the compeer brother of bridegroom can be troubled by bridal chamber, old people thinks " new personality is troubled by do not send, be troubled by more even more " , can avoid for new personality exorcise fierce, after marriage flexibly lucky.
5. Dotal: The give a dowry to a daughter in woman home, be woman family position and fortune is indicative. Dotal at latest sends to husband home before today in wedding. Dotal taste besides garment dress besides, basically be the thing of a few indicative good sign,
Be like: Scissors, shuang Fei of implied meaning butterfly; Cuspidor, call descendants the bucket again; Vase, the implied meaning spends riches and honour; Shoe, the implied meaning lives to old age in conjugal bliss; Feet, 10 thousand just wait implied meaning fertile land a moment. Of course the custom of each district and exquisite different.
6. Above: Both sides of male and female wants the ceremony before the marriage that have. Also be choose decides day of auspicious of fine celestial bodies, the men and women is in respective home by do up one's hair of mother-in-law of do up one's hair, comb at the same time, one side should say aloud: Comb comb end, 2 comb comb white hair Qi Mei, 3 comb comb full ground of children and grand children, 4 comb comb 4 Yin Sun use up mark neat.
7. Maintain red umbrella: Greet close that day, support sb with hand by bridal sister or a matron of honour the door that take a woman, the station is in outdoor place, sister or a matron of honour maintain a red umbrella in bridal the top of head, meaning for " open a branch to come loose leaf " , scatter rice to sky and umbrella top (exorcise evil spirits) .
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